Always make sure he knows why he is being punished, so he can learn from his mistake, correct his behavior, grow as person, and strengthen your relationship. It is vital that he understands that serious matters have serious consequences, and that it is as important not to displease you as it is to please you. They establish you as the source of the pain he fears as well as the pleasure he craves, motivating his entire mindset. The intensity and duration of these spankings also varies greatly, from low to high.ĭisciplinary spankings, also known as punishment spankings, or corporal punishment, are usually less common than maintenance spankings, but are perhaps the most essential. The frequency of maintenance spankings varies greatly, but the majority fall between daily and weekly. Just because these spankings serve a necessary and functional purpose does not mean they won't be fun, rather it should be quite the opposite. No matter how good your man gets, stick with your maintenance regiment and he will just keep improving. Establish regular maintenance and you will see very noticeable improvement in behaviour, attitude, and overall enthusiasm. Maintenance spanking is frequent preemptive discipline that deals with the little things of day to day attitude, actions, and motivations that could use a little tuning up. Your man in chastity shouldn't be offending you enough to warrant discipline spankings on a regular basis. These spankings not only emphasize your authority, but also build his stamina, while releasing pleasing endorphins in his mind, which help him learn to associate pleasing and obeying you with both pain and pleasure. This is a regular spanking administer not for fun or punishment, but for mental conditioning. The cornerstone of spanking therapy is the maintenance spanking. No matter how serious you are about spanking, remember to break your man in over time, and not to go from zero to sixty right away. Still others believe that spanking is just warm up until tears are reached, and only then does the actual teaching spanking begin. Some women believe spanking to tears is too much, while others believe that reaching tears is a sign the spanking has worked and should end. Not every spanking needs to be about whether he cries or not, and certainly your interest in reaching tears may vary greatly from one type of spanking to another. It is also true that you will never make more valuable progress in training through spanking than every time you push him beyond his threshold for tears. Spankings of every level of severity have psychological benefit for training your man, regardless of his ability to maintain his emotional composure. You can also maximize your effectiveness and total strokes by using a variety of implements in one spanking. With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. The more memorable you make each spanking, the greater the benefit it will be for you and your man. You can use the color of your man's bottom to gauge the level of mental effect your spanking is achieving. ![]() The three types of spankings - maintenance, disciplinary, and pleasure - and the reason behind them is the most important factor in choosing the severity and duration. ![]() As a general rule, it is most useful in training your man to choose more frequent spankings over more serious spankings, but with a proper balance, you will be able to enjoy frequent and serious spankings while maintaining safety and well-being. The frequency of spanking depends on the reason for the spanking. The harder you are hitting, the less strokes it will take to reach the desired level of physical and mental impact. Spanking safely is important - if you are new please read FAQ before spanking.ĭuration of spanking is more about the number of strokes and the intensity of the hits than it is about the length of time it takes. Make time for the important things in life !!! TOPICS AND CONTENT INTENDED FOR ADULTS ONLY !!!
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